Dear Ugo,
I am from a polygamy family and I am the second daughter of six girls seven boys. Exactly 9 years ago, my immediate younger sister (step) married it was hard then for me because polygamy is full of competition and envy, I managed to over come the thought of been single.
March last year I did my introduction to be wedded in November but the whole thing didn't work out, it was painful for me and I almost took my life but I bless God that I was able to retrace my step and I am still trusting God for a partner.
Now the problem I am facing is that another step younger sister wants to do her introduction in the house and she didn't tell me, even my father maybe out of pity didn't also tell me so I have decided to not attend not just because of that but also because of the mockery; looking at my family friends and relatives asking me questions about my failed engagement and just seeing my baby sister doing what I yearn for makes me feel so sad. Please don't get me wrong I love her and I am happy for her but I am reluctant to attend because I don't want anyone having pitiless faces for me.
I am a Christian and my brothers have encouraged me to go and attend, but I really do not want to go because I don't want to feel strange I don't know if you understand my feelings.
D devil is d one trying to makeu feel bad. Buh u can shame him by Attending and being happy 4 ur sister. Gods time is D best trust me. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".
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ReplyDeleteMy sister why yhu never get husband, is it that your too choicy or just not looking that good...find som1 build a relationship and marry.forget abt what any1 will think or say..its your lyf
ReplyDeleteI pray may God help ur family
ReplyDeleteThat's not a good decision,,who knows,,maybe if u attend that's were u will meet ur man....but its upto u..
ReplyDeleteMy dear don't put your self so low b4 them make sure you are dere just mind what you eat so try be you self and believe in your God
ReplyDeleteGod will help you
ReplyDeleteIt's only God that can tell you what to do.. Ask him he's your father!!!
ReplyDeleteThank God you are a Christian and I want to tell you this... God works in our waiting. We only needs to have faith in him. It's not a bad thing ur younger folks are getting married b4 u. God is preparing you for something bigger. So put up a happy face and attend ur sister's intro. And I tell you,your joy is on the way.
ReplyDeleteO girl, go for your sister's introduction, and with a cheerful face,who knows, ur laughter might b there
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