Saturday, June 6, 2015

Guys, Will You Still Continue The Marriage After Discovering She Did This?

HER VIRGINITY

You met and dated a girl when you were in the University, she was a virgin when you met her, and you both agreed not to have s*x until your wedding night.

The two of you became graduates but were jobless for 4yrs. However, after many years of suffering, she later secured a job for you in one Big Company where you were paid close to N900,000 per month.

Things were now going well with you and you finally proposed marriage to her, she accepted but after a few seconds, tears began rolling down her cheeks. You asked her what the problem was and what you heard was.
“I Am Sorry Love, M No Longer AVirgin, I Gave My Virginity ToYour Boss Before He AcceptedToEmploy You In The Company. That’S The Only Condition HeGave Me If You Must Be EmployedOr You Would Continue ToRemain Jobless” Hmmm.!”
Assuming you were the guy, would you still go ahead with the wedding.?And as a lady, can u do such for your love?

Drop your Comment.

44 comments:

  1. Y won't I marry her...chichi God bless u for bringing up this issue..
    A colleague of mine,,recently secured a good pay job,,her gal friend a casual worker in my factory gave her pride away to a manager for her man to get d job...believe me,,they both know about d issue n are getting set to get married...

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    1. Olovo I seriously doubt ur friends love for that girl and I get d feeling he may leave her as soon as he gets more comfortable. There's hardly a man in his right senses dat his babe or wife would use her body to sleep with another man 4 whatever reason and still take her in. Which kind love b dat? If u love me u wouldn't even let another man touch u. Meaning if u can do it 4 me, then maybe when times get bad again and u rili need to also bang another man to satisfy ur needs u would also do it. Bcos if u can do it 4 me then u would find it easier to do it for ur own self. Sleeping with another man to help ur guy or spouse is a no no. I don't see any love there @ all. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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    2. Ur wrong my guy....shed discuss the manager approach to her guy n dude gave her the green light to go ahead...right know dude is with a well paid job just with OND n soon both will get married...right now both are now living together..

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    3. Then its official! He doesn't love her then. Don't worry one of these days she will misbehave a little and he would remind her that she has cheated on him b4. Ur friend most likely has a woman he wants to rili marry somewhere and one of those days he would present her with his wedding card. Na then her eye go clear wella. What ur friend did is not different from asking ur wife to go and prostitute 4 ur family. That's d lowest level any man can stoop. I still advice women. Any man who tells u to go and sleep with a man 4 his own sake doesn't love u oooooooo. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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    4. U just needs to understand everybody don't reason thesame....its individual decision,,but if am in that condition,,nothing will stop me....true love knows no boundary...

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    5. Bros I do agree with u we all think differently buh anything that would make me lose what makes me a man, then I don't want it. A man sharing his woman is too skewed a thinking for me to comprehend. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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    6. She discussed it with him,and he gave her a go ahead, and he wants to marry her,Obinna tell that girl to run,bc in the nearest future, na so she go dey sleep with men on his behalf, Haba!no right thinking man that loves his fiancee will encourage her on that

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  2. Never! D body of a woman is d most sacred thing to me in a relationship. Its like saying "Godd forbid" my wife should prostitute so that I'll eat. I would rather wait 4 God's time than 4 my would be wife to sell her body 4 me to get a job. Its unthinkable. After finding out I would even quit d job. For wetin na? Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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    1. When you've experienced 'real poverty' then you'd value what she did and also cherish the job she got for you

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    2. Anonymous I would rather chop sand than have another man lay a finger on my wife. "God forbid" tufiakwa! Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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  3. I also believe it all depend on d guy level of understanding,,,.no man is perfect..

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  4. For d ladies, any man who tells u to use ur body to get something 4 him, just know that's d litmus test to show u he doesn't love u @ all. Meaning he would also use u 4 ritual some day if that is d only way 4ward 4 him @ dat point in time. Love is jealous, its d way God made it. When u love some1 u can't even imagine another person touching them. I hear some Nigerian men in Europe send their wife out in d cold to go and prostitute and after she has endured d blistering cold to find a customer, in d morning her husband will also perk her and welcome her in. Some men have no dignity @ all infact women should run ffrom them like plague. Such a man will tell u he loves u and u'll smile. When I don't love a girl, if she likes let her pick Dangote's call in my room, I wouldn't even ask her what he wants bcos I kno she's not my main chic.Sometimes I wonder why women are so gullible sha. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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    1. Lol,,well,,I just want to let u know,,our ways of understanding differs as humans...what can't work for u,,will work perfectly for others

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  5. Mehn no man is perfect.. I'll marry her over n over again

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  6. Well UWAIFO has just said all what is on my mind. I don't believe losses your body to a total stranger called your boss is the solution @ OLOVO, good the guy still love the Girl and they are living together now. Funny enough you must agree with me That marriage will not last cause there will never be an Argument or quarrel when that guy will not put that word as a pouch line for the lady.. I don't advice any lady to do that at all, all the name of love. if i may ask what is love? I know you will say love is sacrifice but mind you sleeping with other men is not the sacrifice that follow in relationship, cause any guy who agree for you to use your body for His success, is a Vampire you must run away to a better future that is if you care about your future. If truly there is love there between the two people I doubt if there is Hungry dog that would like to share his only meat with another dog. smile it's only when you are feed enough or maybe that food is not your favorite that is when you can be sharing it with smile on your face to another man. If the so called manager refuse to give you or your guy the position forget it all you need is pray focus and search other places.. For God sake women body are the must precious i know in the world despite the present generation has limited it to zero. I'm just imagine me seen another man on top of my angel, my beauty, my desire, the queen in my kingdom, my everything Hmmm Oh boy if na Garri make i drink am ooo...well i just dey laugh

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    1. My brother ur not God to tell d future...even saul of all people receive salvation at d end....if ur wife should reveal her secretes to u today,,I wonder if u will divorce her...
      This is were,I envy d western people,,....its all about true live n understanding......

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    2. U still dey laugh inside dis serious mata? Ahahahaha! I feel u joor! "Na man u be" Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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    3. lol..ii follow d laugh oh

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    4. Lol Lets pray for true love and understanding in our life, cause this is here in Africa and not Western even the western people self after all this thing later you may still hear in the news or see in the blog that such man Murder his wife why?@ OLOVO I know you will never allowed your Girl or i called her your wife to be in such act God bless us all...well i just dey laugh

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  7. Men somthing happen here hmm from what I read I We marrie her and try forget de past

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  8. My boss having a taste of my wife isn't something I can stand. Its men thing. I want my ego intact pls.

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    1. I like dt word'i want my ego intact 'men u cherish ur ego and wouldn't want it to b crushed by such an act,hmmmmm,seeing ur boss and knowing he has........

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    2. Baba I dey with u on dis one o. A woman is d marer of any man's ego. Fuck with her and u're fucking with my ego. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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  9. Y not she sacrifice her self for me I will continue, nothing bad in it she confess, wat if she didn't tell me

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  10. Ughmn...I fink m in a leeaon class here ooo...

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  11. I will still go ahead with my plan and we will surely make agreement never to try such a favor without letting the other partner know and agree. Brother una just dey ague, u forget to read the story well, that girl did what she did without the hope of getting married to the dude, if d guy had not proposed to the girl he won't have heard what happened so it takes a strong woman to do what she did, stop being childish here dude! Such woman can do anything and can go to any length to safe her man's life so love and cherish her.

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    1. True.. Only if I could find such love in a woman. Mtcheeew

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    2. @MARY if i may ask you, what is engagement proposed? does that stand for marriage certificate? You are funny shall ooo and number two, you said such woman can go to any length to safe her man life? well my only advice to ladies who care about their future happiness should never try to fall in such act cause you just lost your value in the sight of that young man no mater how he try to cover up future will tell the real story after given birth, not even now if STEPHEN or OLOVO ask you out abeg put ur shoe for head run for your life ooo...well i just dey laugh

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    3. Hmmm! Mary abeg no try am 4 any boy o! Dats prostitution with style oooo. Any man dat would use ur body to get a job will not also have a problem using u for rituals iswear. Heed Honest's advice, if Olovo or Stephen should ever ask 4 ur hand in marriage. Abeg borrow my leg join ur own tk run o. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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    4. Make una liv Obinna and Kachi,na film dem dey act,ahhhh,men and ego,no woman shud even try it,bc at d end,like anonymous sed,d guy's ego will come speaking, I no fit do am for any man,at d detriment of my virtue,Nooooo,even d boss will make jest of dt man

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  12. Now have read through every poshere ,,

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  13. Now have read through every post here,and I still ask this question, is it right?we re all being sentimental, love u say?at the detriment of my virtue,that man is not super man,seeing d boss everyday, knowing dt his 'wife'or fiancee slept with him,hmmmm,I like what anonymous said,that boss will still keep demanding and in d name of 'love'your wife or fiancee will give in for you to keep your job,absolute rubbish,no right thinking man will accept that,his pride will be at stake, make una commot sentiment.

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    1. Thank you my in-law...well i just dey laugh

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    2. My in-law, e don tey wey I dey wait 4 ur observation. U're a wise woman. Better pikin, a true definition of a queen in all its ramifications. Bless u ma! Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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  14. Cn only marry her if I dnt knw abt it bfor.... nt dat I wil acept de offer cuming frm her mouth.....

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