Col. Robert Akonobi (rtd), former Military governor of old Anambra State, has pleaded with Igbo parents to reduce the bride price of their daughters so that ‘’our young boys can marry them.”
According to vanguard, Akonobi made the plea last weekend during the traditional wedding ceremony of the daughter of a business mogul, Chief Louis Onwugbenu, Onyinye and her husband, Bosah Chukwuogo.
He said, ''To me, this topic (bride price) has been dealt with in the past by Ndigbo, who came out with a reduced bride price, to enable our young boys marry our young girls''....I think he is right! those places charging much should come down!
God bless this man....may he live long.....its a serious topic that our igbo people need to reconsider...imagine getting married to mbise or imo state babe...the gals parents will suck u dry especially when she is educated...
ReplyDeleteNa Imo girls me kno say their own too high. When my friend go marry for there dem almost take bills take kill am. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".
ReplyDeleteBro na waiting nao ha every
DeleteHave sed it before and will say it again, it depends on d parents, my parents God bless them, my father refused all d nonsense in d list,what some of d women were telling my mum,was after spending ds much money on ur daughters, u still want a comprehensive list,ds villagers were not there when my parents trained me from nursery to university, my cousin dt d parents insisted dt dey bring d graduate list, her mum can't go for umugwo,d man no dey reason dem at all,no b only ibo, I was born in warri,and we still live in warri,urhobo introduction no be here, infact na big ceremony, that is y most of dem after introduction, dem go dey stay together, born children, before brideprice, our parents re d issues, my father dint allow d villagers in,in each kindred he told dem to bring one rep,when it came to father's list,he dint take anything, it's still ds greedy umunna, body tell dem.
ReplyDeleteYou are so right... Parts of Imo involve in this should rethink oo
DeleteHaaaaa....mezzy do u still hv sisters left...hook one up asap......I go make her my bride...
DeleteOlovo na Mezzy sister u dey find now abi? Devil go open ya yansh just now, that ur wife wey u hide 4 village go find u com that Lagos soon. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".
DeleteAhahahahahahaha....biko I never marry oh.....ha
DeleteUwaifo no b lie, am from imo, owerri precisely, my mum's brother,married a woman from mbano, 100 tubers of yam na e dem buy,one no commot, infact e turn community development, she wasn't a graduate, and worst she died after 4yrs,now if na graduate wetin for happen, I blame parents for ds,d greedy kinsmen go enter their house, ur daughter and husband go dey pay debt,God forbid
ReplyDelete100tubers! Dem wan kpai person? E clear say ur own husband don get luck b dat o bcos u no just like the way dem dey collect money 4 dat una side. Ur talk make sense sha! E clear say u get sense. As a girl u're d one who knows ur husbands pocket, why should u allow ur parents drive him away with outrageous demands? If most women think d way u do, men 4 no dey get much problem. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".
DeleteOlovo e no pain u reach me,hv heard dt mbaise is a no go area,warri no fit carry last,my colleague had a girl from mbaise,very nice girl,d thing come reach marriage,my friend saw d list,dey begged d parents refused,my guy come bk na,me I no no wetin dey happen, after 3months, na with abeg d girl parents take dey call am,he refused,na when I findout say d girl get Belle, I join for d abeg,d girl just dey happy, it was on his own terms,d parents no get choice na,so I think d parents,has to b considerate, I no say make una go give girl belleooooo
ReplyDeleteAhahahahah....serious matter oh
DeleteI can't forget what happened to my neighbor in 2007, can you imagine that after marrying his wife from Mba ise went totally broke that they have to leave Enugu and go back to village. Can't image myself going there to marry.....
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See wahala....
DeleteMy O my I don learn new thing today..lol Mezzy don finish talk..lol
ReplyDeleteMy brother u no go understand, wen my brothers see our list,all of dem say dem go marry Indian, so dt d girl go pay their brideprice, for my place, na 4 list dey,illiterate, standard six,graduate, comprehensive list na d new one wey our king amend,this people no dey gri bring am,but my parents insisted, even it was still too much,my papa start to dey cut some things off
ReplyDeleteOlovo send ur cv make i scrutinize am.bc na tomato Jos
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DeleteMen this man have a good point o de price is too much that is why you de young men marrie frm Igbo side sir na God go bless you
ReplyDeleteMust you marry from IMO state or any part of east
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