Most people were looking forward to February 14 as a day to perform a civic right. Even though it was expected to be a day to display love and renew vows, the election fever took centre stage and for once was more important.
Many event planners shelved Valentine events and lovers didn’t bother to plan anything major.
But as fate would have it, everything changed over the weekend with the postponement of elections. Many probably didn’t prepare for this leading to some unexpected financial obligations. So how do you cope with this? Here are some ideas to explore:
Have dinner at home – Instead of going out on dinner date you can consider having the dinner at home. This should resonate well with couples who are hardly at home due to busy work schedules or even intending couple just getting to know each other. Dinner dates at home helps you both avoid distractions associated with restaurant settings. You guys simply spend quality time at a cheaper price. You just need to make the setting very special.
Order dinner – If you are not the type who likes to cook or don’t know how to cook you can also consider ordering dinner outside. Loads of restaurants in Nigeria now provide such services in a very timely manner. Even though it might be slightly expensive it saves you a lot of stress, like having to drive out in traffic. You also save money on buying expensive drinks which fancy restaurants typically mark up at times like this.
Go somewhere different – Val’s day mustn’t be spent in exotic restaurants or locations only. Why not visit somewhere different and traditional like the movies, beach or spa. You could also visit memorable places such as where you first met or saw each other. Going to somewhere different more often than not takes you away from locations that might make you spend more on Val’s day.
Watch a movie and or play games at home – This looks like a perfect move assuming the elections were to have taken place. Nevertheless, it is still a move you can pull off. Just get some classic movies, popcorn, drinks and it feels like bliss. It is not something you do quite often so make sure you make this fun. You can even rearrange your living room or bedroom to give it a cinema feel. This can be fun!
Invite parents – This works better if parents of spouses live in the same town. Though it requires some cooking or ordering of food, the memory typically last forever for everyone involved and is priceless. By the time you guys are done teasing about how you respectively met, I am sure you’d have had so much fun you’d hope to repeat it again.
Shop before Val’s day – Doing things at the last minute is always costly especially on Valentine’s Day. Whilst some items are cheaper on Val’s day most are actually more expensive or even scarce to get. To avoid being in such a situation it is best you buy your gifts early enough. Two or three days before Valentine’s Day is fair, however waiting till that day can be quite costly as signs of desperation starts to show.
Discount deals – with the flurry of online shops in the country it is now more possible to get many Valentine’s Day promos and deals. In fact, most advertisers have started pushing out valentine day promos to lure shoppers to buy. Why not take opportunity of some of those deals provided they are cheaper and can be delivered to you on time.
Get value for money restaurants – If you insist on going out on that day and do not want to spend heavily, its better you look for some of the cheapest classiest restaurants in town that serve the best food. You should remember that what is most important at the end of the day is to eat a good food and spend a nice time together. A bad food in an expensive restaurant makes no sense. There are some restaurants in town that offer very delicious meals at affordable prices. Should you prefer an expensive restaurant then make sure the food is classy as that will amount to a waste of money.
Make a sexy gift – For those who are absolutely broke and still want to show some love you can still give your loved one a gift. Going online can reveal various ways of preparing homemade gifts that cost you next to nothing. Ironically, handmade or homemade gifts are sexy and more appreciated if they depict a memory of something special you both share. Whilst not many may be able to make a gift, there has to be someone out there, with an artistic touch, who can pull this off.
Make a huge sacrifice – A special sacrifice you can make on Valentine’s Day is dropping something you are used to doing every other day and devote full attention to each other. This might sound easy but trust me it isn’t. Imagine switching off your phones, shutting down laptops and tablets etc. for the whole day. These are strong addictions so sacrificing them just to give your spouse full attention is priceless.
Have dinner at home – Instead of going out on dinner date you can consider having the dinner at home. This should resonate well with couples who are hardly at home due to busy work schedules or even intending couple just getting to know each other. Dinner dates at home helps you both avoid distractions associated with restaurant settings. You guys simply spend quality time at a cheaper price. You just need to make the setting very special.
Order dinner – If you are not the type who likes to cook or don’t know how to cook you can also consider ordering dinner outside. Loads of restaurants in Nigeria now provide such services in a very timely manner. Even though it might be slightly expensive it saves you a lot of stress, like having to drive out in traffic. You also save money on buying expensive drinks which fancy restaurants typically mark up at times like this.
Go somewhere different – Val’s day mustn’t be spent in exotic restaurants or locations only. Why not visit somewhere different and traditional like the movies, beach or spa. You could also visit memorable places such as where you first met or saw each other. Going to somewhere different more often than not takes you away from locations that might make you spend more on Val’s day.
Watch a movie and or play games at home – This looks like a perfect move assuming the elections were to have taken place. Nevertheless, it is still a move you can pull off. Just get some classic movies, popcorn, drinks and it feels like bliss. It is not something you do quite often so make sure you make this fun. You can even rearrange your living room or bedroom to give it a cinema feel. This can be fun!
Invite parents – This works better if parents of spouses live in the same town. Though it requires some cooking or ordering of food, the memory typically last forever for everyone involved and is priceless. By the time you guys are done teasing about how you respectively met, I am sure you’d have had so much fun you’d hope to repeat it again.
Shop before Val’s day – Doing things at the last minute is always costly especially on Valentine’s Day. Whilst some items are cheaper on Val’s day most are actually more expensive or even scarce to get. To avoid being in such a situation it is best you buy your gifts early enough. Two or three days before Valentine’s Day is fair, however waiting till that day can be quite costly as signs of desperation starts to show.
Discount deals – with the flurry of online shops in the country it is now more possible to get many Valentine’s Day promos and deals. In fact, most advertisers have started pushing out valentine day promos to lure shoppers to buy. Why not take opportunity of some of those deals provided they are cheaper and can be delivered to you on time.
Get value for money restaurants – If you insist on going out on that day and do not want to spend heavily, its better you look for some of the cheapest classiest restaurants in town that serve the best food. You should remember that what is most important at the end of the day is to eat a good food and spend a nice time together. A bad food in an expensive restaurant makes no sense. There are some restaurants in town that offer very delicious meals at affordable prices. Should you prefer an expensive restaurant then make sure the food is classy as that will amount to a waste of money.
Make a sexy gift – For those who are absolutely broke and still want to show some love you can still give your loved one a gift. Going online can reveal various ways of preparing homemade gifts that cost you next to nothing. Ironically, handmade or homemade gifts are sexy and more appreciated if they depict a memory of something special you both share. Whilst not many may be able to make a gift, there has to be someone out there, with an artistic touch, who can pull this off.
Make a huge sacrifice – A special sacrifice you can make on Valentine’s Day is dropping something you are used to doing every other day and devote full attention to each other. This might sound easy but trust me it isn’t. Imagine switching off your phones, shutting down laptops and tablets etc. for the whole day. These are strong addictions so sacrificing them just to give your spouse full attention is priceless.
Good advice! Na only som man pikin fit use inside sha! I prefer to just chill @home with shawty rather than running d streets. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".
ReplyDeleteLol,,but na still spending u d advice us na.....but good tips
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ReplyDeleteBros d best advice nw na tell ur babe say u go collect P V C and d line long,#shekena.lol
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