Forty years after, Mr. Abdullahi Obafemi, has yet to recover from the painful knowledge that his parents abandoned him. They tossed him between each other until his grandmother, who was living in northern Nigeria, took over his custody.
Obafemi is still haunted by his history, the humiliation and rejection he continues to suffer from the public daily.
“I am my parents’ only child. I learnt their marriage ended abruptly the moment my mother gave birth to me as an albino. In fact, I learnt my mother screamed, Eh! Afin ni mo bi (Ha, I gave birth to an albino) when she saw me.
“While they were busy denying me and fighting over who would take care of me, my grandmother took me away from them,” Obafemi said with a note of sadness.Growing up was also not easy for Obafemi as he helplessly endured the constant discrimination meted against people like him.
Although albinos are no strange beings as they only lack the pigment that gives colouration to the skin and body parts, called melanin, they are usually discriminated against.
Apart from their skin and brown hair, many albinos suffer from short sight vision, thus, they usually have challenge with seeing objects, whether far or near.
Obafemi recalled his tough experience in school. His bad sight affected his learning in school even when he sat in front of the class.
He said, “I wasn’t seeing things clearly and I couldn’t afford to buy reading glasses. I had to rely on my classmates so I could copy from their notes but they often treated me with disdain. Nobody wanted to move close to an albino.
“Thank God I was brilliant, it was when they saw that I was very good that they came close to me, not because they liked me but they knew I would always solve questions for them so they could pass.”Despite the resilience and hard work that saw Obafemi through school, getting a good job has remained an elusive desire. He was rejected, abused and humiliated everywhere he looked for job because of his albinism.
Obafemi studied Building Technology at the Yaba College of Technology, Lagos.
“The pains, humiliation and rejection I went through before I could graduate are things I don’t like to remember. It is now more painful that nobody wants to employ me because of my skin and some employers even make jest of me.READ FULL STORY HERE....
Why nao this is too bad they are human like us too painful
ReplyDeleteEya...so sad bt no worry person go feel dis ur pain help u bsyds no b only wey no get job o dem plenty for street
ReplyDeleteNo be small matter oh,I fear my eye when I saw a phd holder being interviewed for a driving job
DeleteOl,,its strange n painful though to feel being neglected....but I still believe it depends on d kind of job he is looking for...if only he will sacrifice d big pay job n seek experience,with one to 2 yes,he will be a hit cake so long he is a quick learner....govt needs to introduce a special law that will favor them..but I think they hv a strong association in nigeria so I suggest this dude go get enroll with them...
ReplyDeleteEhhyyaah.. God will solve ur problem,. But y una post say nobody want to marry us.. Who b d US, and who complain say dem nor wan marry am..???
ReplyDeleteOK.. Na now I read d full story..
DeleteLol...I think his problem is low self esteem
DeleteGod dy
ReplyDeleteSometimes these tins we sef cos issues for ourselve,if they feel dt no one dt is normal wants to marry them,how abt looking for some one same as urself
ReplyDeletelol,,,see me oh...a guy with complete hands n leg n eyes is complaining....
DeleteWhose fault? na only God fit help us in this country
ReplyDeleteThis albino plights ehnn... Na GOD hand them dey shaa...
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