A charming woman who will be 25 next month. Sent her story to help her out. Which could be done by you commenting.
Have been married for over Seven year now last Monday I was suppose to go some where wit my hubby,I called him by 2;pm and he told me he his busy in town and that I would wait till 4;pm I said ok,later when I called him he said I should come and meet him in his office.
I came and he gave me his phone to call some body for him and after the call I went through the phone I saw a photo of him in bed lying down in an unknown house more like a lady's room wit pot on the floor,I quickly transfer it to my phone and kept quite cause I didn't want to start a fight wit him right there in the office,when he came back that evening after dinner
I brought up the matter and ask him to explain but he denied and claimed it was our bedroom and not any body's room, mean while the room is different from our bedroom and I can identify my bedroom anywhere.
So he start shouting at me telling me he will beat me and ask me to leave the room I refuse he drag me out and locked the door, that night I have to sleep in my children's room,since that day up till now he refuse eating my food and told me that I should no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed that I should be sleeping in our children's room I refuse and told him I cannot do that
This same man who refuses me to work and ever since then he don't keep money at home like before and am not happy.
What would you do if you where in her shoes??
I cannot but laugh ; he kept from working and now he refused to feed you; you're no more residing in the same room though same house. Well; you need to substantiate your findings on your husband infidelity before you allege him of wrong doing. The issue is not beyond redemption; you don't need intervention of third party on amicable settlement of the issue rather your humble self and seek audience with him and apologize not because you are stupid but to safe your marriage from total collapse.
ReplyDeleteVery simple he don't value you anymore so go out in search of work b4 hungry kill u and your kids I hate men who beat up their wife even when there wrong he is nothing but a bull Dog he beat her cos of another ladie some men are crazy my advice for her is to pray hard befor the marriage colaps
ReplyDeleteha....my dear,u need to do serious findings on who is trying to snatch ur man away oh...I think this is were their pastors elders n family will hv to intervene ,,if after their help n d man still continue,I advice u get a job n move out of d house..no man should make u a slave at ur age,no way...unless ur hiding cockroach in ur cupboard ....
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