Sunday, August 3, 2014

Dear Chi-Chi's Readers: Why Do Some Women Find It Hard To Contribute In The Home?

From a male Chi-Chi's Blog readers;

I have been married for a year and a half and my marriage is not what I thought it would be. My wife does not like to contribute financially in the home. Given that I make more money than she does, but it's not a crime to help out with little things. 

Sometimes I come home to no food or food without meet or fish and when I ask her she says I didn't drop any money before leaving. 

Sometimes I come home from work very tired and there's no light. When I ask her what happened to the generator, she tells me there's no fuel. So she can't buy fuel? I have to do everything? She says her money is hers alone and to help her family but she keeps forgetting that I and our daughter should be her priority.
What can I do to make her change her ways? I'm not asking her to do much, just little things like buy the chicken or fish for stew and soup, and fuel sometimes when I'm not home. And
maybe soap, toothpaste, pure-water, salt, maggi, and onions?

1 comment:

  1. As a woman,its annoying t see or hear that
    things lik ds still exists in ds century. Its obvious
    ur wife is extremely rigid n goes t show her well
    she "spends" on her so called family. My mum
    is also like ds hence d total disgust to its effect.
    Talk to her may b she wld change. I try to talk t
    my mum n sometimes it becomes a big quarrel
    btw is. I wonder y we hv t wait for dad for
    everythn even tho we re on 90k monthly feedin
    allowance n dad still stocks d store. Now m
    pissed sef


    Laik WTF!!!

    ReplyDelete

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