Saturday, October 3, 2015

Midnight Discussion With Chi-Chi: How Important Is Giving A 'Mouth Work' Important In A Relationship?

Though many research said that going 'down below' on your partner may not be important, BUT they still said it is VERY important in a relationship because it has helped spice up many relationships.

My curiosity to this topic grew when many women I have talked this with say their men ask for it and rarely go down on them. And from several comments on similar topics, many Nigerian guys seem to prefer 'taking' than 'giving'. Which still brings me to why is that?

This question of for BOTH male and females in relationships. So, if you love a woman/man, but she/he doesn't want to go down on you, would you dump her and find someone else and if your married is that a reason to cheat?
...And why do most guys think licking the lollipop is the most important element in a relationship?

40 comments:

  1. Hmm wot a sensitive topic,i tink if u can receive then u have to gve after all u will both enjoy it.

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  2. Indeed, it does spice up relationship

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  3. Though it is important but it is not a must for couples

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  4. Not for me, I don't want and I won't give...shikena!

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    1. Honestly, I don't do such...I don't want my thing to get bitten off

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    2. Honestly, I don't do such...I don't want my thing to get bitten off

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    3. I wonder y u dey fear...u no trust ur partner nt 2 bit it off...lol...?

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  5. Not for me, I don't want and I won't give...shikena!

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  6. I heard from so many sources that it really spice up the relationship...but mehn even though I enjoy getting it I dont ever think I can go down d low....arrggghhh

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  7. The both of you should understand each other and know what you both want. Down below still remain the number one love making partern that can drive anyone crazy like never before. It can never be compare with normal conjugal mating.(Fucking pussy with the dick) down job or blow jaw will always remain an experience you will always want again and again if you've tasted it before. As the saying goes ,Good things are never good unless they are tasted by experience. To cap it ,people should understand each other and decide what they both want.

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    1. Madam Chi-chi Nwa 1 of Africa !
      What's your take on this topic?

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    2. My take is Taft what works for both should be best for both not one sided. If they both love it then they should both get it. It's not right for one to get while the other suffers unless on mutual grounds the either partner is not interested in getting rather loves giving

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    3. You've contributed very excellently .it should be on mutual agreement.

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  8. Do me i do you it make the world go round #some people they form sha

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  9. I fink dz world z generally a 'give n take' scenerio....if u must 2 reciv thou shall give...dz makez d 'merry go round'.....

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  10. Yea somehow it's important but not necessary

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  11. Lick it and make her day. She will fuck the living daylights outta u

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  12. If dey truly love each oda he or she refusing b a reason 4 seperation

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  13. There is nothing bad in giving or receiving, as long as love is involved and it is safe to do so without any health issues.

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  14. There is nothing bad in giving or receiving, as long as love is involved and it is safe to do so without any health issues.

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  15. Me no talk put 4 dis mata o. Make una no con spoil me wey still dey e mama back. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".

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  16. Hmmmmmmmmmm,na for D's chichi corner I dey see many comments,well am still underaged

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  17. If i wnt my wife 2 speak in tongues i go down there. So it really hlp in a relationship.

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  18. Hmmm for me I tink is nat medically acceptable. Taking normal floras or dangerous organism.. into the mouth may cause harm to the buccal cavity.. yeah it ought to be mutual if it is done... buht it's bestt if we don't do it at all

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  19. Blowjob is a beautiful thing in every relationship

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  20. I thought it was only for pple acting p*rn...like seriously are their couples or partners who do ds? For real?

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    1. Wait let me ask Google fast abeg...it's loading ooo so just wait ok...

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    2. Nope! All the sexual enjoyment is meant for couples and not for hoes and dating dear.

      As long as married your body is hers and hers yours as long as no pain is inflicted in the process and both mutually agree to it

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  21. Hmmm that all girls like that but for me is not bad but she must keep her self clean

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  22. Any ladie who say no to that is a dirty person is only when de are not sure of them self you hear something like no no I dnt like it is not normal all na lie she is de dirty tapy

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  23. It's bad, I'm not in support of wrong act, where does wrong act come from? Blow job can never spice up relationship,blow job trigger lesbianism and gay,when u use ur mouth to satisfy a woman or a man,they both get accustomed to it, when the urge 4 sex come anyone can do it for them,they will not care either is a girl or a boy, some set of people dat their knowledge have been corrupted also said blow job is for the impotent,that wanted to satisfy their woman,since their dick is not no more active,they also so said woman do it for those men that can't satisfy them,the danger of blow job for normal being like me and chi chi fans is if we can satisfy our women or our man with caress,romance,our dick or our pussy until we give ourselves blow job,then we are no more human being,before you do anything think about the good and bad sides of it,think about the damages it could caused,the damages blow job can cause is lesbianism and gay,men and women will not longer have feelings for each other,it's better if we don't encourage ourselves to do this,let lay good example for our younger ones,bcos our younger ones are more smarter than us,chichi i think ur platform is not to encourage bad behaviours,this is a nice topic but we don't have to encourage others to do what which is wrong, chchi u are among those that will change the world,my question is which way do u chose to change it? To be good or to bad bad?? Bring more topic like this but don't allow us to encourage ourselves wrongly, use ur platform to curb bad behaviour, and uplift the world thank u.

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    1. I think your really misinformed dear, going down has never encouraged all you have listed. And this discussion is focused on the married. So you might want to check the writing very clearly. It is important for people to express themselves sexually hence that's why the world is filled with likes like you... Whom many term as hypocrites. I am married and I perform every form of sexual act with my husband. Will you also trerm that a sin? We express our sexual feeling openly and that's why we CAN NEVER cheat on each other. All this secrecy breeds cheats in relationships.

      I am here to teach matured and Married minds to learn to be more vocal in expressing each other and STOP the fakeness meanwhile they are busy chasing another or watching porn to satisfy that animal instincts.

      I'm sure you can tell your self the truth deep down inside.

      Thankfully this is my discussion thread and I am happy to answer your opinion 😊

      Thanks anyways for your opinion BUT be truthful to your self 1st😊

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  24. Giving mouth is one of the best things that can happen to a lady during the night out with her hubby.......am sure she can never recover from it.

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