Please friends I need your advice...
I'm 26, I don't usually go through people's phone but recently I stumbled on my 18 years old sister's phone. So I went through her whatsapp chat with a guy I've been suspecting she's having something to do with.
Earlier this year I advised her about relationships generally when I found out about him. Now going through her phone I found out she's having sex with him now.
What do I do? Should I confront her? Or just keep quiet and allow her experience life? Considering the fact that I have been advising her and if she wanted to take my advice she would have, and no matter how much I talk to her if she won't take it she won't and so she'll still do it.
Note:
She's not really stubborn, she doesn't even go out much. She's going to 200L now and she's really doing well (a 4 pointer). She's really fragile even though she looks strong on the outside, and from their conversation the guy is not serious with her, I just don't want her to get hurt and get distracted from her education.
You we only confront her to to have much sex cos asking her to stop it we get worst advice her on it to avoid unwonted pregnant
ReplyDeleteOmo sit am down talk sense 4 her heado. Because when things go sour and she gets pregnant orsomethingelse happens along d line u would notbe able to forgive urself o. So bettergive her proper sexeducation. Hmmm! "Uwaifo don talk e own o".
ReplyDeleteU can't stop her,,the best u can do is to educate her on the dangers of unsafe sex,,give her sex education....that's all
ReplyDeleteConsult Dr Emeka
ReplyDeleteLmaoo haha
DeleteHelp her in anyway u can...lol at emma
ReplyDeleteTalk to her,don't shout
ReplyDeleteDey ve said most of it... tell her to use protection
ReplyDeleteLet her know of ur opinion... nd let her know u're aware of her sex life.... nd still advice her u dnt lyk d idea bt dat u can't force he to stop ...
ReplyDeleteYes come to me just as emma said he can testify
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