Writer/music promoter Onyeka Nwelue has slammed parents and society for pressuring young women into marriage. In a post he made on his Facebook page, Onyeka says Marriage should only be considered after a lady must have had an established career. Enjoy his statement below;
“I woke up this morning, thinking about some of us broke ass idiots who like to feel important. Some of us have chased away people with our mouths and the way we lie. Also, I woke up, worried about all the girls in the world who are worried about getting married. Now, let me explain this to you. I'm a man, hustling like other men, 24/7. I want to advise you all to just chill. I know your parents want you to have grandchildren. Try to remember if they have been good parents. If they have done their job well. If not, send them to the market to go buy grandchildren. They are being sold everywhere. About the men you want to go and tether yourselves to, like goats, I have dick just like other men. I know many men are very incompetent and also IMPOTENT to be fathers and husbands. They just want to fuck and get a woman pregnant and walk around, thinking they are married, so all their problems are over. No, young ladies, MARRIAGE should be the last thing on your mind when you don't have a bright future. Or even the money of your own. You will end up a nagging wife. Your husband will treat you the way he wants, because he will feel that he is in charge. There are things you need to re-consider because letting the societal pressure get to you. I've been hearing, "Is a must a woman must get married?" No, it is not a must, because MOST men I know are completely INCOMPETENT and can't even wash their own under-wears or think for themselves or save themselves from drowning in bathtubs. MARRYING a man to get away from pressure is like jumping into fire from the frying pan. Don't do because THEY want you to do. Do, because YOU want to do. Think about WIDOWS with 6 children first. They are left in the world alone. Their husbands are enjoying in their graves, free from the troubles of the world.”
A bright future has so many meanings...but I think he should turn it the other way around cos men are the ones that should make sure they are up to the task
ReplyDeleteI disagree with ilher in all what she said but only agree with her when she said we should not jump into marriage for d fun or due to family n peer pressure...am not surprise about d certain rubbish she talked about,she her self never had a successful relationship because of her boss like attitude but I don't mean any insult to her oo...she is suceesful as a single mother I doubt if she will give her own duagther such advice if she had any
ReplyDeleteHe is incoherent in his writeup. Does it mean that it all ladies that will be a carrier or successful woman in the society. Why don't he just adviced that they get proper education first. Or will he marry them all when they are getting old and still waiting to be successfulcarrier woman.
ReplyDeleteAbeg make him go refresh him brain.